#80

#80- Give up an argument before it begins

Instead of demanding answers and being all self-righteous about how I am perfect. And fighting until the problem was resolved or we were both so hurt and frustrated we gave up, I lovingly said I wasn't happy and I needed time and space.

I didn't fight. I didn't argue. I channeled all of the love I felt into that discussion.

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And naturally, it went smoothly.

Still hard. But I was very grateful I didn't attack his character or demean him while I explained what I needed.

Very good experience.